Listen in to Gil and Brenda for some refreshing conversation about your relationship. They’ll offer you tips that come from their experience of working with couples like you, and practical tools you can use right now. And the “Tingles” will tickle your emotional funny bone.
Tune in for some Tips, Tools and Tingles for your relationship.
3 Ways to Stop Relational Drift
You may be living parallel lives, on the same page and everything is going well. Yet we all have seasons where we drift from that. Careers, health, focus on our kids and a myriad of other things can pull us away from each other without us even realizing it. Gil and Brenda share 3 common ways drift can happen in a relationship. Luckily, they also offer ways to get back to the dock too!
They’ll be adding action steps at the end of the podcast. Here they are for this episode:
1. Sit down with your spouse/partner.
2. Dividing the page in half (long side) draw a horizontal line from one end to the other. This represents your marriage.
3. Draw a boat on either side of the line (one yours, the other your spouses’/partner) starting from the left.
4. Draw out where your path/direction through your relationship (from beginning to where you are now).
5. Talk about the times you drifted from the marriage line and times that you crossed over or intersected it.
6. These intersections are when you are sharing your worlds and how you compliment one another. How can this happen more? What gets in the
way?
7. How can you say something when you feel like the drift is happening? ie: My boat (the boat) is adrift. The boat has left the dock.
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Gil and Brenda are interviewed by Paul VanSickle with WAY-FM 104.5 (Vancouver, WA market). The upcoming Northwest Marriage Conference is coming next month. How do your past relationships affect the present? What happens in each stage of marriage? Honeymoon, ankle biters, teenagers, and empty nesting all have a special flair about them. Gather some wisdom and laughter as you listen in on this great conversation!
Register today for the NWMC on 2/9/19 in Vancouver, WA
https://wayfm.regfox.com/nwmarriageconference
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The Holiday season can be…crazy, right? Although, living in a stepfamily can be that way all the time! Gil and Brenda bring some perspective to the “Holidaze” with some old reminders (Holiday survival 101) and some new thoughts. Realistic expectations vs lower your expectations…which one? Don’t ask the kids too much about their other bio parent. This conversation is worthy of a podcast on its own!
Let this be a reminder of you to slow down the spin this holiday season. Although, this applies to most holidays. Be encouraged!
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Is there a friendship in your marriage? Friendship can get lost in the marriage. Will it always be fun? No. It is ok for friends to disagree/fight. It’s healthy in a marriage…as long as it is done correctly. It’s important that both “hearts” are heard. Gil and Brenda share 3 ways to build your friendship in your marriage. This vital part of your relationship needs to be intentionally nurtured, especially when THOSE PEOPLE (your children) try to derail it. A healthy marriage is the best gift you can give your children, no matter their age.
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The holidays are just about to begin. Do you know how to prepare for them? Is this new territory or is it time to up your game? And we’re not talking about the turkey…or the dinner!
Being in a stepfamily is hard enough, but you add in the stresses of the holidays and hard is at a new level! Gil and Brenda will share 5 tips to help stay sane during this emotionally charged season. As always, they will bring perspective and laughter into their podcast.
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